Defining Aleyo & A Few Tips
The definition of the term "Aleyo" can differ depending on who you ask and what their practice is. Some will use an endearing tone as if they are speaking to a baby. Others will scoff at the word as if it's a "four-letter word". In Lucumi an ALALEYO is a contraction meaning "outsiders of the faith". In Ifá you can be considered an ALEYO until you have been initiated as a priestess or a priest. The hierarchy in Ifa is the same and will always be. However, the pathway can vary from person to person. How someone is addressed in their ILE is decided by the godparent, elder, or establishing BABALAWO and IYANIFA of said ILE.
If you are called an ALEYO please do not get offended as the term is not derogatory in any way. Ifá is a practice of mystery, obedience, and tradition. Elders may change the conversation when ALEYOS is present as a form of protection and should not be looked at as "gatekeeping".
Tips
Start with yourself before you sit on any mat. Self-study and educate yourself as best you can. When you are in readings, ceremonies, or gatherings you won't feel like people are talking in circles around you if you have studied independently. Educate yourself on the forms of divination you allow to be used in your readings. Try to gain an understanding of what it means and the why of the who, what, when, and where.
Practice meditation and daily prayer before seeking out godparent(s), orisha, etc. Do your research. And as odd as this is going to sound avoid online forums for the answers to your questions. Look for books by established authors. I've compiled a spreadsheet of resources that is updated and added to once a month available [HERE].
Listen. When elders or those who have more experience than you are speaking; don't interrupt them with questions or comments. This tradition is passed on orally so it is important that when you are retaining the information made available to you. What you do with that information and how you present yourself once you begin to thrive spiritually is where you will see tangible growth. The language won't be foreign, the animals won't be scary, and there will be fewer errors in your trials.
Don't compare yourself to others or orishas. A common mistake ALEYOS make is comparing themselves to other ALEYOS or IYAWOS. Everyone's path is different and is determined by reading. Also, don't get too caught up in Orisha's dogma. Just because you resonate with a particular one doesn't permit you to act out their characteristics; good, bad, or indifferent.
Ask questions. When in doubt or if you have concerns ask questions. Ask more than one person if you can. Need someone to ask? Email jasmine@alaafiaaleyo.com
Note From Creator,
Identifying as an Aleyo is beautiful and whether initiation is in your path or not any spiritual journey to self-enlightenment and cognizance of character should always be supported. AlaafiaAleyo.com was created to be a safe space to learn about: Hoodoo, Voodoo, Santeria, and Ifà. I promise to work from a space of authenticity, good character, and wisdom.
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The Inner Self & Destiny Exploring Ifa's Concept of Ori
Ifa, a traditional Yoruba religion, holds a profound belief in Ori, a concept that encompasses one's inner self, destiny, and spiritual consciousness. Understanding Ori is essential for practitioners of Ifa, it plays a pivotal role in shaping one's life path and decisions.
The Essence of Ori - Ori often referred to as the "inner head" or "spiritual consciousness," is considered the guiding force within an individual. It is believed that Ori predates the physical birth of a person and has a unique connection to the divine. In Ifa's philosophy, each person is born with a predestined path, and Ori serves as the compass that aligns individuals with their life's purpose.
Ori as a Divine Gift - Ifa practitioners view Ori as a divine gift from the Olorun, The concept emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and nurturing this divine essence throughout one's life journey. Through rituals, prayers, and offerings, individuals seek to establish a harmonious relationship with their Ori, seeking guidance and blessings.
The Role of Divination - Divination, an integral part of Ifa practice, serves as a means to communicate with the divine and understand the messages from one's Ori. The process involves a trained diviner, or Babalawo, who interprets the patterns formed during rituals, providing insights into an individual's destiny and the steps needed to align with their Ori.
Balancing Destiny and Free Will - While Ori represents a predetermined destiny, Ifa acknowledges the existence of free will. The interplay between destiny and personal choices is a central aspect of the Ifa worldview. Individuals are encouraged to make conscious decisions that align with their Ori, contributing to a balanced and purposeful life.
Ceremonies and Offerings - Ifa ceremonies and offerings are essential practices to honor and appease one's Ori. Rituals involve elements such as sacrifices, prayers, and symbolic gestures, creating a spiritual connection between the individual and their inner self. These ceremonies are considered crucial for maintaining a positive alignment with one's destiny.
Personal Transformation - The concept of Ori encourages personal growth and transformation. Ifa followers believe that by cultivating a strong connection with their Ori, they can overcome challenges, fulfill their potential, and contribute positively to their communities.
Conclusion - Ifa's concept of Ori provides a unique perspective on the interconnectedness of the spiritual and physical realms. Embracing one's Ori is a journey of self-discovery, personal development, and alignment with destiny. Through rituals, divination, and conscious choices, followers of Ifa strive to create a harmonious balance between their inner selves and the external world, unlocking the full potential of their spiritual consciousness.
In love and prayer,
Oya Sanyah