Defining Aleyo & A Few Tips
The definition of the term "Aleyo" can differ depending on who you ask and what their practice is. Some will use an endearing tone as if they are speaking to a baby. Others will scoff at the word as if it's a "four-letter word". In Lucumi an ALALEYO is a contraction meaning "outsiders of the faith". In Ifá you can be considered an ALEYO until you have been initiated as a priestess or a priest. The hierarchy in Ifa is the same and will always be. However, the pathway can vary from person to person. How someone is addressed in their ILE is decided by the godparent, elder, or establishing BABALAWO and IYANIFA of said ILE.
If you are called an ALEYO please do not get offended as the term is not derogatory in any way. Ifá is a practice of mystery, obedience, and tradition. Elders may change the conversation when ALEYOS is present as a form of protection and should not be looked at as "gatekeeping".
Tips
Start with yourself before you sit on any mat. Self-study and educate yourself as best you can. When you are in readings, ceremonies, or gatherings you won't feel like people are talking in circles around you if you have studied independently. Educate yourself on the forms of divination you allow to be used in your readings. Try to gain an understanding of what it means and the why of the who, what, when, and where.
Practice meditation and daily prayer before seeking out godparent(s), orisha, etc. Do your research. And as odd as this is going to sound avoid online forums for the answers to your questions. Look for books by established authors. I've compiled a spreadsheet of resources that is updated and added to once a month available [HERE].
Listen. When elders or those who have more experience than you are speaking; don't interrupt them with questions or comments. This tradition is passed on orally so it is important that when you are retaining the information made available to you. What you do with that information and how you present yourself once you begin to thrive spiritually is where you will see tangible growth. The language won't be foreign, the animals won't be scary, and there will be fewer errors in your trials.
Don't compare yourself to others or orishas. A common mistake ALEYOS make is comparing themselves to other ALEYOS or IYAWOS. Everyone's path is different and is determined by reading. Also, don't get too caught up in Orisha's dogma. Just because you resonate with a particular one doesn't permit you to act out their characteristics; good, bad, or indifferent.
Ask questions. When in doubt or if you have concerns ask questions. Ask more than one person if you can. Need someone to ask? Email jasmine@alaafiaaleyo.com
Note From Creator,
Identifying as an Aleyo is beautiful and whether initiation is in your path or not any spiritual journey to self-enlightenment and cognizance of character should always be supported. AlaafiaAleyo.com was created to be a safe space to learn about: Hoodoo, Voodoo, Santeria, and Ifà. I promise to work from a space of authenticity, good character, and wisdom.
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